When anger directed toward you is really not about you
Often time’s things happen in life that forces us to ask the question “What was that about” and when that happens there are but two clear choices. The first is you deserve the fire for what you did but choose not to remember or it is what is referred to as “displaced anger”. In order to know which one, take a step back and search your very soul to find out if it was truly something you did. If it was then simply apologizing will correct the situation but if it wasn’t then take heart in knowing that the anger you just witness is an indication of something much deeper and if that person is truly a friend. It is a sign that maybe you need to offer your help in solving. Many times anger directed toward us is really not about us and more about a deeper unsettling of the person expressing that anger. Suppose you have finally gotten your fill of someone seemingly to be taking advantage of you. You feel less like telling them where to go and drawing them...