Manns Medium

Many people seemed quite confused about the value of a relationship, any relationship, so today I would like to try and help some understand what makes relationships. For some it’s the interaction, for others it’s the distance you travel mentally and emotionally and for others it’s the results at the end of the day.   Believe it or not relationships are those things and so much more but the common thread that holds it all together is past experience. An example is in my past I met a real true angel named Susan.   She showed me what life, love and happiness was all about.   I did not know that then because I had never experienced it before.   I thought it was all about choosing a mate and sticking with them through thick and thin but when it became apparent that it was solely my idea and not one shared by those sharing a relationship with me, that idea soured.   Because that was my only idea of a relationship, I flopped around like a fish out of water f...

Be it known to all who read this that I am not an expert in relationships, dating or human nature nor do I play one on television.   I am only a mere layman with the power of observation and that power, which is shared by all of us, is where I come from with this revelation.   I am sure that you have read or heard of hundreds of articles about why people cheat but none that I have ever seen or heard of have mentioned what I consider the number one reason. Many have been preaching that the reason men cheat is because it’s part of their DNA or some animal instinct.   I think these reasons are just an excuse and with any excuse if you play it long enough people will start to believe it and do nothing more than except it as fact.   Many preach that the reason women cheat is because it is to even the “playing” field for both the sexes or just plainly to get even.   Again, it is my belief that these are excuses and fall along the same line as previous stated. ...